Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Big Sister

We knew shortly after Emery was born when we were supposed to try to add to our family, it was sooner than we had planned but we both knew and could't deny it.  I posted previously about my experience with my Granma dying, in it I mentioned that I asked her to do me a favor and take care of our babies that were supposed to come to our family and send them WHEN IT WAS THEIR TIME. At that point we had been trying for a baby for a while and knew for some reason that it would be a while. Months passed, a year passed, more time passed and no baby. "Infertility" is a hard thing, but we never felt bitter or angry because we knew that Granma would keep her promise and send our baby when it was the right time. 

We were coming up on the two year mark of trying for a baby when we thought that there was a chance I was pregnant. We didn't want to get our hopes up too much, we had just had the week of Grandpa-Great in the hospital, him dying and his funeral, but I felt like I knew that this time I was pregnant. We came home from Idaho and finally got up the courage to go and buy a pregnancy test. 

It is all in the Lord's timing. He knows exactly when we need things and how to make a sad time in our lives happier. We were sooooo excited that we finally got to add to our family! We gave Em these pajamas shortly after, but told her that they said "Emery is the cutest" when she asked. 





Another little story to go with this, I am not a very patient person. I am constantly praying to Heavenly Father to help me work on my patience. Shortly after the new year I was praying and thinking about things I wanted to work on, I thought about this and started to cry, I realized that I had been ignoring the biggest way Heavenly Father had been trying to teach me patience. It was just a couple of weeks later I found out that I was (am) pregnant.




We are so delighted for this little GIRL to join our family and when we finally told Emery she was stoked!





Enjoy the Journey.

Monday, March 9, 2015

Grandpa Great

We had one of the hardest things we have had to go through in our marriage in January, when we said "See you on the other side" to Grandpa Great. It was a roller coaster of a week and we are so glad that we listened to promptings so that we were able to be there with him for a few days before and then when he passed. He is one of the greatest examples in our life and we are so proud to bear his name. We will do all that we can to live worth of it and to live as he would. There have been several times in the last two months when we have thought "What would Grandpa do, or what would Grandpa say?" 

We draw comfort in knowing that he was ready and knew that it was his time to go. It has been a hard adjustment and there have also been times of looking around thinking "Where's Grandpa" only to remember and have your heart break again. It has also been a good reminder to cherish the relationships we have with others every single day.








Their love story is one of the most beautiful ones we can think of. 






Enjoy the Journey.


Friday, November 14, 2014

Hair


I've been cutting Jared's hair since before we got married and every time I do I forget how much hair he has! It takes me 30-45 minutes with the clippers! This last time it was so long, which I love but it gets "uncontrollable" as he says, and we both hated it after. I really wanted to cry when I saw how much hair was on the floor (and it was the longest clipper length).  He has decided he won't go that short anymore, but it just means more time because I will start using the scissors exclusively on it now. 

Enjoy the Journey.

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Before/House Listing Pictures.

I just found these pictures in my email, they are the pictures of our house from the listing. I'll comment below them and tell you what we've changed and then take pictures sometime soon so you can see the difference too.


The front of our house! We're on the corner so we face Southeast.
The upper window is the master bedroom, the lower right is my craft room, lower left is the laundry/bathroom.

-The changes are minimal, the red curbing bricks that are for no reason in front of the porch have been moved, our own chairs and table sit on the porch-much cuter. Next spring the door will get a fresh coat of paint and the kick plate will get one too! 


This view is roughly standing from the front door. The door that you see is the coat closet.
-A fresh coat of paint in here went a long way. The color in this picture is a peachy/flesh tone... blech. The carpet in here was replaced a week before we made the offer, this is the carpet we took throughout the entire house. They had put it in this room the stairs going downstairs (stopped at bottom) and up the stairs and in the hallway upstairs.


Standing in the dining room corner by the stairs looking back into the living room.


Standing in the living room by the coat closet looking straight ahead into the dining room. To your right is the half staircase going upstairs, and you can see part of the half staircase going downstairs.
-The flesh color is gone and that wall wrapped around the kitchen is a pale blue. The green wall is the neutral that we took throughout the entire house. 


Standing in the corner by where you go downstairs looking into the kitchen.
-The doorknob you can see before the fridge is the pantry, that wall is our neutral to the fridge, as it turns by the fridge the wall is blue. The biggest change we made in here is the kitchen cabinets. I had forgotten how terrible the kitchen looked until seeing this picture. We painted them white and it made the BIGGEST difference. We also spray painted the fridge black to match the appliances. Appliance spray paint works! $12 was well worth it and cost much less than a new fridge to make them match!





Looking from the pantry door towards the dining room/basement. It is so so nice to be able to see down where she is playing from the kitchen!


When you go up the half set of stairs you hit this room first on your left (well really the master door is before this on your right, but I'm going clockwise). This room is E's room. It got a fresh coat of white paint on walls and the ceiling.  The big wall that the bed is mostly on is now pink, and we put in an IKEA chandelier for her, her "princess light". 

This is the next room on the left, it is now a guest room. Just a plain off white color with a bed in the room. :)


The next room (at about 3 o'clock on an actual clock). "Emery's bathroom" as she calls it. This is the only tub we have. We've taken the mirrored vanity down (and made $30) and put up a mirror that I bought at a yardsale for $10, it was a HUGE change! Painting the vanity is still on our list of things to do. :)


This is the view of the master from our bathroom, the room was painted an off white ("antique white") and the wall with the pictures on it is blue and that is where our bed is. My mom and I made a window seat and this room is still coming together slowly. 


Master bath-the corner shower doesn't bug me as much as I thought it would, I actually don't have a problem with it. Painting this vanity is also on the to do list still.


Master closet, it is still a walk in, and decent sized, but our last one was the size of a bedroom so it is down-sizing for us. :)


Family room downstairs, this room was painted the neutral (autumn haze) and got new carpet-the carpet in the living room we took throughout the rest of the house.


This is off of the family room, and is now my craft room. It got new carpet was all, but it made a huge difference. This room has great lighting which is fabulous for crafting. My quilting machine BARELY fit. Like a few papers between it and the wall on each side.


The downstairs bathroom/laundry-this still needs to be painted. Eventually we'd like to put a shower in this room so the guests don't have to go all the way upstairs to shower because our main guest room is in the basement.


From this view to your right is another half set of stairs that goes into the basement. (so these stairs run under the stairs that go upstairs to the bedrooms) When you get to the bottom to your left is a big storage room, the hall then bends to the right and there is a door on your right and one straight ahead. 


Downstairs in the basement, this is now our guest room. (the door if you were to go straight through the bend in the hall) We painted the ceiling white (it was baby blue with clouds) and the walls the neutral we used in the majority of the house. This room actually had carpet in it and had been finished semi recently. It is very similar to the carpet in the rest of the house but is slightly longer. 


The door to the right. The basement didn't have carpet on the stairs or in this room (it is just laid down) so we finished it off by putting carpet in. We took the carpet from the family room and set it down in the storage room which made a big difference in there as well. This room is the exercise room. It can't technically be used as a sleeping room because you can't get out of the window currently. The window well is dug out, but then the kitchen windows (behind the table) are bay shaped and hang over the dig out as it currently is, so you'd have to be about 4" to get out. Sometime next spring we'll dig it out just so that it is done and another access out. It works perfectly as an exercise room though as it is on the smaller side. 



The door with the black thing on the bottom goes to the kitchen, the door on the right goes into the garage. Where you can see the trash can Jared and his dad have built a shed which has already proved to be worth the money as we can both park in the garage and it makes a big difference in Jared's mornings. 

I'll get some better pictures of the backyard as well as updated ones so you can see the difference soon!

Enjoy the Journey.

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Moving

We MOVED! We bought our first home and moved in August. These are random cell phone pictures that I sent to my mom along the way. I'll try to post better before and after pictures soon!


Cleaning hall/baseboards. It's amazing, even though this is an area I cleaned weekly when you do a deep clean so much more comes off!


The Cream color is what we painted over the flesh color.


Kitchen before!


Again the cream over the green.


Living room (cream is what I painted). The first day I got SOOOOO much painting done. E had hand, foot and mouth the first week we moved-(we moved/did projects over a 2 week period the last of August.) I had to paint what she wouldn't/couldn't touch so I got creative!


Lunch. She loves a burger.


Master (antique white over green on 3 walls, one blue)


Master


The living room and hallway/stairs upstairs as well as stairs going down (but not family room) carpet was all replaced a week before we made the offer on the house. We found out what the carpet was and put it throughout the rest of the house. Jared and Adam ripped the carpet out and then a neighbor (by the townhomes) came and laid the new carpet. It's amazing how much better it looks!


Downstairs the carpet wasn't laid on the stairs or in the (what we call) exercise room, but we laid it there. We did have child labor while we were doing projects. She's quite the helper these days!


Previously a white fridge! I highly recommend the $3 a can appliance paint! $12 and this fridge looks so much better and matches the rest of the appliances.


When you only move .5 a mile it is so much easier to not fully pack/unpack. I got pretty creative and felt like a genius with some ideas! (side note... I've never taken clothes off hangers to move... it's so much easier not to I think!)


This light was just a circle bulb light and we found this one for $5 at a yard sale. It's amazing how much of a difference the little things make!


Getting packed!


Unpacking!


Taking things off the walls-I try to do this very last because it makes everything seem so sterile.


What was left/our last loads of what we moved. 

Jared's parents came down the weekend in between the weeks we moved. They left his dad's new truck and Granpa Fielding's snowmobile trailer. It was so nice to be able to take larger loads and to not have to rent a truck. Every time we went we took two cars and loaded them to the very brim! We also took basically everything from both of our parent's homes which was quite the task. Now we've been going through it and dejunking. It feels good to be responsible for all of our stuff, but it is also an overwhelming task somedays. Every time I take something out to the garage/Jared's car to get rid of it feels so lovely. I don't know why de-junking feels so good to me but it does! 

Enjoy the Journey.